In my experience, age difference isn’t as important in a relationship as most people think. It’s more about creating a positive partnership and building a loving life with each other. So, my tips for the men out who are attracted to these classy kougar women:
1. Be a gentleman. A lot of guys forget or don’t know how to do this but a kougar wants to be treated with respect, like any woman does. While she might be attracted to your witty charm or youthful lifestyle, she still wants you to treat her with good manners.
2. Slow your roll Casanova. Don’t worry, unless! Unless you actually have a future with her. Let things happen organically.
3. Stay Cool. You may be excited, but don’t lay it on heavy. Have fun and enjoy your dates but don’t move too fast. She’s still studying her prey, so don’t mess it up.
4. Be charming. Smile, it’s your biggest weapon and use it often. Make eye contact; Don’t you look at those! Always keep the conversation flowing. LISTEN to what she has to say, and show interest in her opinions, experiences, and activities.
5. Give compliments
but don’t focus too much on her physical appearance, she may be anxious about it. And even if you’re complimentary, she may worry that you’re too focused on looks. Rather focus on her intellect and style, she wants to be appreciated for who she is as woman. “You look amazing tonight,” or “Wow, that dress is very sexy on you” are safer than “You’re body is hot.”
6. Have fun. Simple is key. Fun is the theme. Focus on her and don’t let it be a “me” conversation.
7. Don’t talk about sex first. You can talk about anything, past relationships, and love in general, but don’t be the one who brings up sex first.
8. Class is in session. You want to learning about your date. It’s not about you. Engage your conversation with questions: “What do you think?” “Has it been that way for you?”
9. Pay attention! Listen to her answers. Remember the color of her eyes. Be aware of her dislikes. Watching what she does, and understand what most important to her.
10. Be yourself! Don’t be someone your not, because a Kougar can smell that a mile away.
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